Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Strength and Self-Revelation



I'm not sure how much of this is going to make sense as it's 3:00am, but sometimes that's when the clearest thoughts come through.  (Apologizing in advance for the book!)

“All good work requires self-revelation.” – Sidney Lumet

For a while now, I’ve been wracking my brain over how to get this solo done.  Free-writing, dance improvs, different tools you learned in dance comp – but I've been coming up empty.  Today, while I was scrolling through pictures for my summer workshop brochure I came across a picture from one of coEXIST’s pieces “Forgive Me,” and all of a sudden I remembered something that our director and choreographer, Kathleen, had said when we were learning this dance.  She was re-staging a personal story on different dancers but it wasn’t going to be completely the same because “she is a different person today than she was back then.”  All of a sudden I knew what to do.  

This solo is one that I had always wanted to add on to my senior piece in college.  My piece “Out of the Silence” was about my life up until that point.  At the heart of the dance is the subdued voice that’s crying to be heard.  The music is from the “Memoirs of a Geisha” soundtrack, so it naturally had a lot of Asian themes to it.  For the most part, I made the piece about the opposing forces in my mind and in my life – the ones that cry out to be heard and the ones that are perfectly content in this “delicate, soft-spoken, respect your elders, mind over heart” value of the Asian culture.  6 girls begin movement in a circle and in silence until Yo-Yo Ma’s beautiful cello comes in – music he described as the voice of the movie’s main character.  At the time, I was a girl who felt the immense, burdening pressure from her family to be perfect.  I was a girl with concealed frustrations that weren’t supposed to be heard, but I was also a girl who was in love and thought that at least that part of her future was bright.  It was clear.  Her strength came from love.

Six years later the stakes changed.  Pain came.  Life changed.  I changed – for the better.  I am no longer that girl who knew exactly what her dreams were.  Today, I know where my life is.  I know my situation and  I still fight this constant battle of expectations from not only my family but of the world.   The future remains unclear and in a way I can’t really explain, I feel like I need to prove something to the world.  I’m still searching, still wandering, still looking for my true self… and that’s okay. 

Perhaps that is why I’m having so much trouble getting the movement out of me for this solo.  I chose 6 of my advanced girls at the studio I teach and am attempting to re-stage “Out of the Silence,” adding my solo at the end of it and also inserting myself into the group part.  “Out of the Silence” is about cultural identity, speaking up for myself and for my passion in life.  While I still struggle with those same themes, it’s linked to something else.  The girl 6 yrs ago thought she had an identity and destiny linked to another’s but the woman I have become today is linked to so much more.  I stand alone and am doing my own thing for ME.  This solo, more than ever is about the Me I am today and the Me I will become tomorrow and every day after that.  The group part of the piece is part of a past story and the solo is about the present and the future – breaking and unbinding from the things holding me back NOW, letting my voice be heard, and standing up for what is me.  

Kathleen’s words that day had always resonated with me so I went back and dug through my past to where the piece really came from and how it relates to “now.”  In 2001 there was an inspirational book called “Yell-Oh Girls” that was published and it was eye-opening for my middle school self.  In this book, “Asian American girls, speak up and speak out.  They speak for themselves, to each other, and to the world…new voices are heard and new stories become part of our greater American story.”  I looked back at all the passages and sentences I underlined that helped me with “Out of the Silence.” I remember reading one in particular to my cast in college before they performed it for the first time on stage back then, and as I read it again now, I think of coEXISTdance.

“May we look inward to find the truth…May we give words to that which is not yet spoken.  My strength, is your strength, is ours.”

When I think about CoEXISTdance, the word community comes to mind - how we give, how we support, how we stand for a cause.  Not only are we about giving towards the community, we have also built one of our own within the 8 of us.  We dance, we laugh, we share, we create, we support, and through it all we draw strength from each other – my strength, their strength, our strength.  Because of this, the self-revelation has come and the movements and feelings are finally flowing and I am thankful. =)

*Lauren Sion

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